JULY 2010 - SCAM ALERT

Please note that if you receive an email enquiring about your dress with similiar wording to any of those below, that it is a "cashback" scam. You should NEVER sell to anyone who is not willing to view/try the dress on or offers more money than the dress is worth. Please ignore their email and see below for tips on how to sell your dress safely. We would suggest ignoring any emails from buyers who are not in the UK or who are men, regardless of their location and also ignore anyone who mentions they will send you a cheque for an increased amount. We strongly suggest you accept cash and that the buyer visits you to try on the dress.

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Latest scams:

Message from wanda
Contact via gentlelady14235@gmail.com or 0723421648
Location: UK

MESSAGE: Hello ,i saw your dress online and i want to find out if it is still available for sale . Is there any wear or tear i should know about ? Get back to me soon.

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Message from stephen
Contact via stephenmandy@ymail.com or 0000000000
Location: usa

MESSAGE: Hello, am highly interesting in buying your item .am in need of your item posted on this site.i will like to ask you some question
1.what is the condition of the item 2,the final price 3,why are you selling it 4,are you the real owner 5,for how long have you owned the item 6,do you
accept a cashier check as a mode of payment 7,do you have more pictures you will not have to bother yourself about the shipment because i will arrange for the shipment by myself.i have a private shipper who will come to your house for the pick up.get back to me as soon as possible my email is stephenmandy@ymail.com thanks
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Message from Pearson Taylor
Contact via pearson_taylor20@yahoo.com or +447045753418
Location: uk

MESSAGE: Hello seller, i love this dress and am highly interested in purchasing it,i will like to know if you still have it. Hope to read from you soon..
Thanks..
Pears

Frequently asked questions

How do I send photos to you?
You can send them by email to sales@sellmyweddingdress.com If they are sent by email please ensure they have been saved at a resolution of 72dpi. We will resize the images to the correct format for your adverts, free of charge. Don't forget to let us know your details, so we can identify which photos we receive are yours!

How do I know whether my buyer is genuine?
If you have the slightest concern regarding an email you have received please forward it on to us. Remember there are lots of scammers out there and often the email will contain bad English or grammar - this is the first sign that all may not be well. If people offer to give you more money than your dress is worth or offer to send money without seeing the dress, they could well be part of a scam. Remember, never give out your bank details to anyone.

We recommend that the potential buyer visits you and inspects the dress to ensure it is in good condition. If someone is not willing to view the dress and just asks you to send it on, alarm bells should sound and you should not proceed without the buyer visiting you. A seller is advised to accept cash only - and for the correct amount - not any larger amount. If you accept Paypal please ensure the funds have cleared before you sell your dress. Accept cheques at your own risk (we would never advise this) but if you do, never part with any item until a cheque has cleared. Cheques should be issued for the correct amount - not an inflated amount - no matter what reason you are given for an increased amount. The most common scam is to offer you a larger sum of money than the goods are worth, sometimes using a cheque for a very large amount indeed. You may then be asked to refund the ‘difference’, because the buyer only has a cheque made out from a third party (usually a reputable company) that the buyer wants to pay with. These cheques are fraudulent in the extreme, and will either bounce the moment they hit your bank, or after the issuing company realises that they’ve been defrauded. The issuing institution then cancels the purchase, retakes the money and leaves you badly out of pocket and without your goods.

Please use commonsense - remember if it sounds too good to be true then it probably is. Don't let the excitement of a potential sale overcome your use of caution when making arrangements for someone to purchase your dress.

How will a buyer contact me?
By phone or by email, using the form method within your dress listing page. Please note that you need to send the potential buyer a NEW email, using the email address they supplied in the form, rather than clicking "reply" to the form itself. If you do this your response comes back to the website and has not been received by the potential buyer.

How long will be advert run for?
For a year. Should your dress remain unsold after this time you will be contacted to see if you wish to renew your ad. If during this time your item is sold, please contact us so we can remove it from the site, and save you unwanted emails.

What details should I put on my ad?
You should try to give us much info as possible, especially if the photos do not do the item justice.

How will people find my ad?
We do extensive online marketing of the website.

How do I work out what to sell my dress for?
Your dress will have significant value to you - both in monetary and emotional terms. However a secondhand dress will not have the same value as what you originally paid for it. The best way to decide what price to sell it for is to think about what you would be willing to pay for it secondhand. Alternatively, add "ono" to your listing if you are willing to take an offer.

Do you sell new and unworn dresses too?
Yes. If possible try and show tags in your photos or mention that the tags are still intact/the dress is brand new, in your listing. You will be likely to get more money for your item than if it has been used so the price should reflect this.

I've had my dress a while, can I still sell it?
Bridal fashions do change so after a while your dress may not be as popular as it would have been previously. The price should therefore reflect this and it may take longer to sell. We don't recommend trying to sell your dress on the site if it is more than 2 years but it will certainly help if you have as much info as possible to give in your listing.

Will my face show in the photos of my dress online?
If you want your face to be blocked out of the photos please ensure you let us know.